In what universe...? Part two

[Not Quitting]

Thanks NQ Still getting positive signs from your H I see I've thought of something to say to H when he next phones up, I can tell him that I've more important things to worry about at the mo such as my health! I've still got to find out what's caused the bleeding. I think I am pre-menopausal, but I've still got to go and get it checked out.

How about you don't mention it at all unless he does, then tell him that you've got more important things on your mind .

Just an idea, but have you spoken to your mum about how old she was when she went into menopause - that's if she'll talk about it with you. It may help give you an idea of whether you are pre-menopausal. I couldn't do that with my mum as she was having radiation treatment when she was my age and that caused her to go into menopause artificially. And that is one question my doctor asked last time I had a check-up.