I'll respond to Rosa in a second...but about the second cell phone, I need to clear that up...he's had a second phone for almost a year now.

He broke the "original" second phone 3 weeks ago after OW #1 wouldn't see or talk to him anymore. He got mad and broke it. Then, I had already found the "new" second phone last week or week before. I jokingly call it his "super secret second" phone because he acts like it's so secret when he knows that I know about it.

So, I'm not in denial about the second phone. Yes, he is obviously hiding talking to other women. He is also probably looking up porn, etc. on there. I know this.

And, I'm not discounting that he is having another affair...or more than one other affair.

I was just updating on the threads what he told me. I'm not saying that I believe him. I can't believe anything he says....good or bad.