Iva, welcome to DB forum You'll find us all a friendly and helpful bunch For starters, just stick to one thread When I first joined I used to do what you did and go to other threads just to get an immediate answer. We're all on different timezones, so tomorrow morning you may get loads of answers to your thread Be patient - A word you'll hear a lot on here Getting hate email and telling you it's all your fault is typical behaviour for a WAS. You sound like you are doing ok with your GALing and your PMA, keep it up First of all, it is not entirely your fault, just remember that. He is trying to put you down and because you've been married for a while he knows what buttons to press. Has he moved in with OW? How long as he been with her? I wasn't sure if you put on your thread how old you both are. It normally helps to have a signature like mine especially until we get to know you What are you doing to GAL apart from going out? Have you thought about taking up a new hobby or doing some volunteering work? Going out is ok in small doses but you are going to need to watch your money as it is harder to manage on your own. You mention not being able to get the chance to talk to him. He will contact you soon, but if he doesn't then just peek out and find an excuse to email him such as his mail coming to yours or financial issues. I hope to hear from you soon, either on this thread or on your own thread
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
You'll find us all a friendly and helpful bunch 
