2nd - so are you ready to move on? You never said if you thought this weird separation was a cheeseless tunnel. You started dating a little, your W wanted to sleep with you. I'll be honest: if my W had come over and brought up the emotional connection stuff, I'd have said, "Oh, well, take your pants off, I'll deal with the emotions later." Considering you've barely spoken since, I dunno what it would have hurt unless it would've stopped your detaching process?
