PATIENCE PROMISCUITY AND PROFIDIOUSNESS

[Ambivalent]

Saw counselor today.

She seems to be a good fit.

I gave her an abridged version of our marriage, the stressors, my hurts and how I hurt him.

Next session we will goal set. She gave me a " Relationship Vision " Sample sheet.

I'm to look at it and check things that I would see as ideal

I' will share with all of you :

We give each other surprises
We have fun regularly
We support each other
We are comfortable alone or together
We take care of our bodies
We are truthful with each other
We are sexually and emotionally faithful

We have a satisfying and beautiful sex life

We touch each other's bodies often

We parent our children well

We express appreciation and praise each other

We have secure and happy children

We share major family decisions

We make each other's deepest needs a priority

We care for our relationship each day

We experience passion with each other

We communicate our feelings openly

We contain each other's anger

We have daily private time

We feel safe with each other

We are financially secure

We exchange ideas and thoughts

We are reliable for each other

We resolve our differences /conflicts quickly and remain close

We support each other's goals

We listen to each other's feelings

I'm going to think these through, I hope this helps others to look positively towards what it is they would like to have in a relationship.