Today was great, but unless you are willing to make a stand for us and cut off ALL contact with OM, then I'm sorry, but we can't spend time together. I just had to cancel our dinner reservations for Saturday because we can't go to dinner with things where they are."
Good job Jon! I think the only tweak I would have suggested would have been to not say you canceled the reservations, but to say that if something didn't change by Saturday then you didn't think it would be a good idea to go. The difference being that by saying you canceled you basically told her you didn't trust her to do the right thing by Saturday. When you enforce boundaries don't forget to allow time for her to comply with them.
