Beware that when that happens, the WAS may push more buttons because a lot of their behavior stems as a reaction from ours or are expecting to get a reaction from us. That's why when we step away from the picture emotionally, and sometimes physically, they are forced to look at themselves, because there's no push and pull to distract them and make them blame someone else. Makes sense?
I still have a LOT to learn, but this is what I've figured out so far.
Preggonomore,
I never responded to this, but I am re-reading my thread thus far and these words of yours struck me. So, if we get out of the way, the thing the are blaming for their unhappiness (their LBS) is no longer there. So if they are still then unhappy, they begin to wonder? That's genius.
It's double genius because then it gives me the time to work on myself as well.
s4tk
_________________________ Me: 37 W: 37 M: 11 D:5 S:2 IDLYA, W removed rings, BD 07/13 EA/Fantasy (PA?) confirmed 12/13 W moved out 05/14
