hi alba,

My h did the same thing last night. He has suddenly found interest in watching football games at bars. He's watched football before but never had this huge interest like now. I'm sure his POS was there too, but I don't know for sure. He did come home around 10 last night, whereas before he would've stayed out all night. I was in bed by then so didn't have to see him and then this morning I was SOOO tired because I didn't sleep good so I didn't have my room light on. He has been saying goodbye in the morning, but didn't get a chance to this morn. So I kind of did the ignore thing too.

Maybe since you were up and he kissed your cheek maybe have at least been polite? Just a simple Have a good day with a quick smile. That would have been you, acting 'as if'. That's what people keep telling me. Treat him like a roommate where you would treat him with simple politeness.

Our sitch's seem kind of similar. It's so hard, I know.


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

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