This is very good to read Mach. I am struggling with this very thing as well jfun. And the vet girls are making me dig DEEP too. I'll be watching to see what this means for you.
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
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