@planet - The other day S5 sat on my lap and wouldn't move, clung to me. The next day he was throwing himself on the ground with a huge fit and wouldn't let me touch him. I know it stinks, but I think you're seeing normal behavior from kids who have had their lives turned upside down and are confused. Also, if your W is like mine, she is not a good disciplinarian - thus the huge fits that never happened with me.
I think you should worry less about their moods from day to day and just concentrate on being consistent and loving; no matter how they act. Kids crave boundaries, loving discipline, structure...
I know you have a lot on you, and I'm sorry for that. Sometimes typing words in a box frustrates me when I see some of the pain on here...
