Mach--I want to be the man my sons can look up to and be proud to call their father. I want to be a man that tried his best to save a relationship of 20 years. What I hope to get from standing is a greater understanding of how to create a loving relationship. I hope that includes my W at some point.
Still not deep enough....
I read that you want this for your Sons....
And I get that
What about YOU ???
A greater understanding of a relationship is good....
Not deep enough...
What about YOU ???
What defines you as a man ???
You can be all that there ever was FOR your Sons, yet at the end of the day, who are you for YOU ???
You can be the best husband in the world...
And at the end of the day, who are you for you ???
The bottom line in this equation, is you....
Everything else, lets you be the Martyr in this equation..
Are you willing to sell yourself, just to be a great Father and Husband ???
Or would you rather just focus on becoming the best Man that you can be, and the rest will follow along ????