Well, sounds like you had a good weekend...AND I'm so happy he stayed home last night, instead of going out!!! Yay!!!

About wine...seriously, I'm not an alcoholic by any means...but here lately, there is nothing like a glass of wine and a good book or a long, hot bubble bath....

Anywho....I'm proud of you for looking within yourself these past few days. I really liked what you said about sarcasm. I'm very sarcastic, too...and do the "eye-rolling" thing a lot...and when I read your post, I was just hit between the eyes with how disrespected my H must feel after all these years of that. WOW. Something I need to do a 180 on immediately!

And, I, too, took a break from the boards for a few days. You know, the vets tell us to do that from time to time...and it's good advice. Helps us sort through stuff...helps us take a break from all the marital woe...helps us come back refreshed and ready to tackle things.

I really think your H is starting to see your changes, Pud...I really, really do. Keep at it. You are doing a great job!!!