This will be a hard time for your H. Many slip and contact, it takes a lot of willpower to keep away from the OP.
If he is committed to NC, he will be depressed, angry, sad etc.. Expect the worst will be over in a month or two. Likely, he will still miss her to a degree for many months. During this time, as hard as it is, stay positive, and don't express anger in front of him over how he feels- save that for here.
Will your husband get his feeling back for you? Without the OW in the picture, I would say yes- so long as you are meeting his most important emotional needs consistently. If, however, there is intermittent contact with the OW, then you will make no progress.
Stay strong!
HS Thank you for your reply!! I know it will be rough! He starts to come around and bang, mad again. I know how he feels since I am going through it with him!! I have to bite my tongue not to say TO DAMN BAD!! Now you know how I feel! As far as he getting his feeling back I really don't this so. He hates me and has to remind me daily of that and we will NEVER get back together. I know not to listen but it is hard.I know I am his whipping post right now. Sleeping in the same bed is not easy.I don't know if I can make it to Christmas for him to leave if something doesn't change!
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
