I have to admit that I was thinking what Gineen wrote - that she left Match for awhile and then came back. I don't think BA is crazy for having doubts about this path - gorgeous or not. It doesn't really matter what her reasons are, does it? The only thing that matters is if BA is uncomfortable. If that isn't the case (and he did say he would wait it out), then it's not a problem.
She hasn't told him that they are exclusive so there were no promises made. But the fact that she posted a new profile photo is kind of telling too.
And then I have to agree with Wen too - why the heck do we make this process harder than it needs to be?
Like all of you, I can't afford to take on anybody who is more broke than I am. I don't want them to support me either, Barb, but I don't have wiggle room for someone who can't manage money better. I think a lot of these people use the real estate crash as their excuse. Yes, 2008 was a miserable year with fallout for a long time afterward. It was definitely tough for me and my business. But I learned how to get by on a lot less until things improved. I can afford my DirecTv and my cat too.
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
