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I know it's the gross side of things, but W had a pap smear and checkup last week, or I wouldn't have touched her.


I'm not sure why this is considered gross but FYI, a pap smear isn't diagnostic. It's a screening test for cancer and while signs of STDs may be seen, unless she asked for specific testing, you don't know any more than you did before the Pap.


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M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

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