WAW having affair, still living in separate rooms

[kenva]

I didn't acknowledge to w about our anniversary this weekend. And I was ok with it. She was at her parents house this weekend hanging out w s and a comment my mother in law made after just a few comments w said, which she is still avoiding any talk w her parents , was that it came across that she does not want to be married. She said something to w that it would have been our anniversary and wife's comment was, " it technically is still our anniversary. " She also told her mother that she realizes that what is going on isn't good for our s and that she is trying to get out. Man was she cold the last couple of days, ignoring me. This morning tho , she was a little warm. I still get frustrated occasionally when I think of her and OM, and when she is cold to me, but I take a few deep breaths to calm myself and still pray every night she wakes up.