Trugritter, I have detached a lot from W and do not watch her at all besides her words and interactions with me. Detachment is important to me because it allows me to work on my changes I want to make without worrying about what "other things" W may be up to. Her very quick changes are great, but I'm not going to let them hurt me if it ends up just being some weird phase in her journey. It's going to take quite a bit of these positive interactions before I even consider leaving myself open. Just taking it day by day right now, I know W is a very confused individual.
You can be as hard on me as you like.
separated since 9/01/13 M-31 W-36 D-4 Move back home 12/26/13 3 months of tough times Finally in a happy M