I feel like a whole bunch of all the DB stuff and relationship advise in general is just silly. It seems it is all just gamesmanship.
When BA told Barbara he was available if any free time popped up, he was telling her he was flexible. And if she really wanted to see him she would have "flexed" some time for him.
I keep feeling like if I met the right person I wouldn't have to work so hard for it. When things have worked out for me in the past, the people who were interested in me made time to see me. I worked full time starting when I was 16. I had two jobs when I met my X and was attending college full-time. He made time to see me. And it was never forced. I know we are older, but in many ways I have move free time now.
But GG has a point about broke guys. I just can't deal with that right now.
Great thread title. My son calls it people who go : POOF !!! Must not be real people, they just evaporate after they message, smile or favor you!
Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32 D final 9/12 Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!
