Also for 180s, he said I was too critical - haven't said a critical word to him in 5+ weeks; not enough intimacy - I have been forthcoming with that but only if he initiates it (this one is rough bc I want to initiate to show him but that's pursuing of course);
Why are you waiting for him to initiate it if he always had to initiate it before? I'm not a vet/expert, but as a husband, my W has been pursuing me and it feels awesome. I literally had to put the brakes on it.
