Hi Melissa. I felt the same way as you when I started doing the 180s, you start feeling better about yourself and about everything in general, and wonder why you haven't been living that way the whole time. Good to shake things up once in a while, and it sounds like you are doing a good job!

-cp

M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.