Thank you I will just do that. I know for sure I really can't spend time at MIL house on Thanksgiving due to working in retail we are opening up on Thanksgiving night at 8pm. I heard that everyone will be working long hours not sure how long so I will definitely need to get a really goods day sleep in just in case. And for Christmas I don't know what I'm going to do I still have a little over a month to come up with a plan for myself. But I will let my boys spend both holidays' with H and his family.
M:42 H:37 M:14yrs S:13; S:9 Found out PA:8/2012 2nd PA & still w/OW:4/2013 H asked for D:6/2013 H moved out: 8/2013 H & OW moved in together: 8/2013