Its totally up to you. As long as your H is free to spend time a w/ the boys over the holidays. You can start your own new traditions with the boys and when they aren't with you maybe you could have some other fun plans...or volunteer somewhere to help others. I don't think anything is wrong that.
me: 30 H:30 tgthr:7 m:4 no kids 5 counseling sessions initiated by H as a LR: Oct 2012 long distance marriage b/c of work since Nov 2012 official BD: July 2013 nothing filed 1/1/14 I dropped the rope
