I am so sorry, sweetie. I know the pain of discovering something like this.
First sit with it a bit. Dont make any decisions now. You will be bouncing around between feelings of anger, sadness and disbelief. It is important to feel them.
I wanted to tell you that when someone is in crisis, they sometimes do unthinkable things in order to stop the pain.
If you decide to confront him, be prepared for him to put his own spin on it. Truthfully, you will not get the real story.
Think about what you hope to accomplish by confronting him now.
I know it seems unbearable right now. It will not always feel raw like this.
