Did you already give your w the NC condition for w breaking off ALL communication with OM? I thought you had set that condition before you and w ML and you failed to keep that boundary ... I already gave the 2x4 for that one.. This time I will just acknowledge that you are human... If you already set the boundary, then you should definitely enforce it now.. If you never actually set that boundary with w, maybe you should wait until you are in front of a MC. Your MC can help and it won't make you look controlling to your w.
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)