Best wishes, I have confidence you will listen intently. If you are curious about if it is the house or you, you could throw out a ...not sure if we could swing the mortg. statement, and see how it goes.
Just a thought, it may get her to open up about what she really wants and give you an opportunity to listen carefully.
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Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay