In the sitch as it is now, I am not trying to be that comfortable peace. I don't know that its really a healthy peace for her. She can't say why she feels it and is confused about a lot of things (her words not mine). It may just be an escape from facing everything else real.
I am just focusing on being a better me and in part that means just validating as she tries to find out why that peace is there and nowhere else. I can't be a fixer for anyone but me. If nothing else, that's the biggest thing I've taken out of the whole thing. I can't find someone elses happiness for them, they have to find it themselves.
me: 30 XW:28 tgthr:4 m:1 no kids BD: June 2013 D: Jan 2014
