uR, Didn't the posters also refer to the pool boys as cabana boys?
How can I forget the two by fours! That's during the time frame when they were used all of the time. Whack!
It's not to recall some of the things we use to discuss here...but the times have changed and people want quick answers to resolve their issues here and unfortunately, there are no quick fix responses to help them.
It use to sadden me when posters would inquire about my marital status or where I was w/my situation, and when I advised them that I was divorced, I could pick up a little bit of cooling in their postings, as if the advice provided wouldn't be good enough to save their relationships. Again, they didn't realize that only they can change their own situations, i.e., whether their relationships are saved or if they end up making the journey all on their own. Oh, well...they all will learn what needs to be learned in their own time. Just as we did.
Bust on my friends. Life is far too short to sit around watching the paint harden or the pots boil...get out there and live your lives.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
