TTD, I sure know that feeling of thinking you're going to be strong enough to say/do something, and then the moment arrives.... Back in the post BD #1 days, after we started piecing and getting ready to move across the country, I was going to insist W and I go to a one-day session with MWD since we lived near her office (and W, like many WAS, had agreed to 1 counseling session, more for my benefit than hers. I figured since I'd agreed to leave our house and friends/family to go somewhere she didn't even have any friends/family, it wasn't asking too much.... But, I never did work up the courage.
I can empathize with your H, but given my long struggle with debt, and all the while not having full cooperation from W, and with her WAS episodes and moving around chasing dreams we can't catch adding thousands to it... I just can't feel too sympathetic. I'm sure his MLC is not helping either of you financially!
For some reason the water bill for the new house arrived here. I may just pay it, because anything I make W pay just ends up costing me, anyway. If she doesn't have the money, it goes on the CC! Still don't have the money raised for taxes on both places and their due very soon.
