I know these are only your thoughts and ponderings, so I'll add my thoughts and ponderings to this I feel that I've changed since H left me, but in a different way to what H would like me to. He says I've not changed because the house is still cluttered and there's cat hairs! I've changed because I validate him and don't argue with him like I used to. I don't always want the last word either. I'm sure you have changed, but you know the old saying - You can't please everyone all of the time, but you can please some people some of the time Try not to let your flatmate bully you. Turn the other cheek and let him slap that one as well. That just popped into my head and I've just realised that that was the gospel message on Sunday from Luke chapter 6 verse 29
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
