And yes I've seen it in both sexes too!. However more than not when experimenting sexually, many men go down due to their feelings about women and who is judged acceptable to "use" for their release or experimentation.
The remark had me curious, and that is why I looked it up after asking about it. I'd never knew reasoning behind it...it was a curiosity.
It really didn't play into my feeling badly. It was more a :"what does it mean?"
No biggie. The other remark just came off like a dig. But again, I was very sensitive, and didn't need to have someone say in a manner of speaking...
She could be hotter, more intelligent, sexier...than you...at the moment. I believe it is a way women relate to each other rather than the way men may. There are always exceptions.
For when I banter with men, I am more like them, with women I may be more aware of the nuances between our sex.
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay
