I always wondered the same thing about how they give up on their faith or whether it changed to suit their outcome. My W was and is (I presume) a long term Christian. She has a good friend who is also the same. Like a lot of subjects within our sitch's, this one has always puzzled me: that is the giving up on the marriage, especially without any working on it (in the WAS opinion). I have seen none or very few of the Christian values that she followed for so many years. Along with those values I wonder what other things she would quite happily give up to feel she is so right. Thanks also TTD180 for your writing about leaving it in God's hand.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
