@EveryoneElse Well. Ouch. Although I knew when I posted what was coming. However, I'm going to back up and ask for advice. I know that I tend to demand specific behaviors and attempt to control.
Ok, so irrational/emotional JonF is turning over the reins to this awesome crowd:
Question: Should I initiate no contact with OM as a boundary with the consequence being that she and I can not be in any contact until it happens? Should that include even things like counseling or constructive R talks?
However, I'm going to back up and ask for advice. I know that I tend to demand specific behaviors and attempt to control. 