The thing that I am trying to wrap my head around is that since my brothers D,a year and a half, I think she was a waw, I have been asking my w if we were ok. She never once indicated that there was any thing wrong. I think there were too many changes in her life in such a short time. In June, she went from a stay at home mom to working s, she went to the dr and I think he shook her up because that is when she really started to go to the gym, her son signed up for the marines, her x is getting remarried, they will be having a baby and of course our finances.

She has told me that all she wants to do right now is be with her friends. I was thinking her two gf but I'm thinking her new friends at work as well. found out that her one friend who has been having an affair for the past 5 years, broke it off with her bf a couple of mths ago, around June, and that her and her husband are not getting along.


M 47
W 38
My S 21
Her S 17
Our S 8
M 8
DB 9/5/13

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