I can't fault Jon, I was weak too, and the ML during this phase was incredible. It's almost new again... the marriage is in the process of being reset, it took place in a new place, etc etc.
He's following the script I went through, but in fast-forward mode. His timeline is mine in compressed form.
Jon, just be careful, I think you still have many ups and downs, and some possible pains coming still.
Me: 43 W: 37 Together: 18 M: 15 D: 8 yrs old ILYBNILWY: March 2011 She Filed for D: August 2011 She moved out: Sept 1, 2011 Reconciled: May 2012 Divorce Case dropped: July 2012