To me, if you wouldn't have set the no contact with w until you get the confirmed text from her, the sex would've been fine. It is the setting of boundaries and then easily allowing them to be broken that is the issue. (Sorry for being such pest Jon. You probably want to swat me like a fly)
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)