@Mr. Bond - believe it or not, this is how our marriage has always been. It only stopped back in May or early June. The one thing we never had ANY problem with was ML like teenagers; lucky me I guess.
However, I get what you're saying, and W already said she would go to counseling, I just asked her to wait until next week as I'm starting a big project this week. If she doesn't schedule, is it worth a gentle push/reminder? Or does she need to be a big girl?