"I wanted to say something else too. It's nice to know that I got through the bomb and though it hurt, a lot, there was good to come out of it, and cliche as it is, it did make me stronger. Makes me think what was I afraid of before, emotionally? I think it's easier to take emotional chances now knowing that it's not going to kill me. Ironically, having been hurt and seeing it's not so bad makes it possible for me to have better relationships because I'm not afraid of getting hurt. It is really too bad that I didn't know this before, but I do believe things had to happen to me in a certain order to get where I am"
HI AD, I read this and wow, there is alot to what you said here. I personally was struck by the "things had to happen in a certain order" thought. Events in our lives do have a way of shaping who we are and what we learn from them. Glad I read this today, Thank you....
