Originally Posted By: JonF

I'm not going to let it happen again until some of the emotions even out a little.


Be careful Jon. You ML once, now you're going to withold it until the time of your choosing, when the "emotions even out"? That's going to look to her like controlling/ manipulative behavior, and that's been a problem in the past, has it not?

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W has readily agreed to counseling, so I suggested we go next week as I'm starting a new project this week.


Let her set it up, cede some control to her.

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She told me it would be awesome to go for a nice dinner this coming Saturday for our anniversary. Thoughts on that?


That's a no-brainer, of course you go!


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57