Thanks for the positive post NQ I was half joking about the "could've" thing I said on the phone call and you're right it stopped him going off on one I have asked for a counsellor who specialises in CBT, so I'll be looking forward to what she has to say I didn't mean any offence when I said about those who don't go to church you know. I was trying to be polite I was going to say Christians, but then that might offend someone as well, lol. Anyway, I'm pleased that you believe in letting go and letting God as well I'm off for my dinner now, back on later and will answer your thread later
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!