It is tricky for me, because I don't want to reject him. But when someone has been living separately for months ( in my situation ) I cannot bring myself to do it without a test that he is free of std's or worse!
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You don't want to die on the receipt hill, right?! Given the totality of your sitch, you may find that there's no need to bring up the receipt's contents in a month's time or down the road as things will, hopefully, progress for the better.
I would love to be able to believe this, albeit the Viagra says to me, extramarital sex is desired, may have already occurred or will.
So I don't think he'll initiate sex with me anytime soon. But if he does, I'm stuck. Something has to be spoken about.
He lied to me for 10 years about using a prostitute. Then when he admitted it in counseling, he did not mention a condom.
When I discussed this with him, his response was that he did.
So the trust is NOT there, and I would be foolish to assume that he is disease free! If I'm lucky , he'll get one that can be cured and that'll make him look at what he really wants in life!
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Do you still want to keep your hand on the hot stove or remove your hand? The choice is yours.
This may be interpreted in many ways...would you please clarify?
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay
