3, I love your post today! I'm glad you enjoyed your massage! DBing really can/does make a difference, doesn't it? I am several months behind you in this journey, but in the same place where I am still clinging to hope that he will come running back. How does one willingly detach? Does it just happen on its own as you GAL? Or do you actually have to try?
I don't know who your coach is, but mine is awesome with coming up with a short term plan. It sure does help to have the next few weeks laid out for me. I like your idea of rewarding yourself at the end of 30 days. I'm not sure what the reward would be, though. A massage sounds great, but right now I think I'd either end up crying or sleeping through it.
Did you go back and read your post? You are doing great!!
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
