I wouldn't think of it as lying. More a case of omitting the follow up LOL . He's not around so he won't know whether you've tried to speak to her or not, and I'm pretty sure he won't call her to ask her himself now will he. Don't stress about the "should have" or "could have". What's done is done, what's said is said. You can't change that. And it kept him from going off on you as well so that is a positive .
Concentrate on your school work or something else for now. As you told HWA "let go and let God". Now, I don't go to church, but I certainly believe in God. I've done my fair share of praying since BD and I believe that it's how I've managed not to completely lose it and how I've managed to come as far as I have lately.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks
. He's not around so he won't know whether you've tried to speak to her or not, and I'm pretty sure he won't call her to ask her himself now will he. Don't stress about the "should have" or "could have". What's done is done, what's said is said. You can't change that. And it kept him from going off on you as well so that is a positive 
