In what universe...? Part two

[TryingToDo180]

Thanks for the quick response NQ I've not got an appt with the advice centre yet, I just told him I'm going to get one.
You're right about my mum, it would make our R harder if I involve my mum in this which is why I don't intend to ring her about this. I can't say this to my H of course.
Good idea about conveniently forgetting to ring her or ask her about the money I don't want to lie, but I think sometimes it's called for!
When I got off the phone, I thought about what I should have said to him. I should have said what would make me really happy and get me out of my depression is for H to come back home. If he says well that's not going to happen, I could say well exactly! lol. Actually though I wouldn't have the guts to say that, but I thought it I don't want him back anyway at the mo, he needs to sort out his debt problems first.
I don't know how to persuade him to go to the advice centre, maybe the counsellor may have some ideas. I'm going to be seeing Relate NQ, who as you know deal with MC but they also have IC as well They normally cost a lot of money, but the college are paying for it