No you saw him taking advantage of you PERIOD. At that time, without the benefit of a doubt he was having an A.
This is YOUR perception. I would not consider an affair as taking advantage of me, disrespectful yes. But not taking advantage.
I was referring to asking to use the SUV, not about the receipt. You assumed incorrectly here. Meaning I was questioning if he was being nice , so he could use the car.
As for this comment:
Oh and all that stuff about "affairing down"...I've seen many cases on here where the WAS actually affairs up.
This comes across as just plain nasty...it serves no purpose but to place fear or doubts into a woman's mind.
If you really want to be of some help...that kind of comment is really uncalled for. Strategize, goal set, share informative articles.
You may think you are helping by "calling me out" on things, but your writing has a tone which comes across as very angry and insensitive. That type of tone, with me, is ineffective. Especially when I was in the pain I was in.
It comes across as cruel. It may be effective with men...but not me. I had a father who was an attorney and he would badger me like that.
I don't take kindly to it, and I find it very off-putting and somewhat nasty . Too in your face.
Formerly Workinprogress H :55 M :over 29 yrs. Together : 33 D : college D : adult BD and left : May 2013 Separated Experimenting/Replay
