I think you're right At the moment he doesn't know what he wants. His mind may still be in an MLC fog and he's still on his own emotional roller coaster. He needs to get rid of the baggage he's acquired as well, ie. the OW!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!