No you saw him taking advantage of you PERIOD. At that time, without the benefit of a doubt he was having an A.
"My husband is an opportunist. I've seen him with his "best friends" and he does think of himself."
That doesn't mean that it's how he is with you. Be honest, you know you treat him differently than you do your friends and vice versa.
"It doesn't take a neuro surgeon to figure this one out."
And neither you or I are neuro surgeons.
"It is pretty evident and IF presented in a court of law, believe me, it would not be just myself raising an eyebrow."
Let's not exaggerate here. You don't know the truth.
"It is almost as if you are gas-lighting here, defending something that is pretty evident."
No I was pointing out the fact that you don't know the truth. Only your H does. You're speculating and guessing. If you want to know the truth, then ask him. You're just mindreading until you hear it from him.
BTW, don't EVER accuse me of gaslighting and defending an A. My W had a 3 year A with her boss so I do know a thing or two about A's.
Oh and all that stuff about "affairing down"...I've seen many cases on here where the WAS actually affairs up.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
