However...she is still in the house, the replay affair activities appear to be nothing, or next to nothing, she is reconnecting with the kids, the house, everyday life slowly but surely (the LBS appears to be last in line in a lot of cases).
And if she still goes, then at least I provided a sane, safe place for her to get to a better, stable place so she wouldn't (hopefully) do something like hook up with the first predator that came along, since we would be sharing custody of the kids. THAT has been a big concern of mine.
The goal I had that I didn't realize for a long time was getting and improving "me", but that is an ongoing goal...
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
