It's tough, but you have reach down and find your center, discover the difference between "need" and "want".

Basically, meet your own needs. I didn't think I could go for as long as I have...2 years...but somehow, somewhere the strength was within me. You can find it. Look deeply. Oh, and a vivid imagination and/or a little porn and astroglide doesn't hurt...(PNA) wink

As far regular everyday hugs and such, my kids are the best provider of that.

Hope that helps some.
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In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm