Hello again and happy Monday. I started thinking more of the "Believe none of what he says and 50% of what he does" statement. Since he SAYS he loves me, should I not believe this? It hard, because I feel like the anger stage is definitely done, at least with inflicting it towards me. But he is definitely in this "Replay" stage, trying to soothe himself with solitude and getting rid of anything that is a responsibility. The whole wanting to rent a room, that baffles me. Just a look into his family life...it was rough. His mom and dad divorced. They had an awful divorce, there was infidelity and affairs, custody battles. H has been on meds for ADD and his father decided he didn't need them. H has also been to therapy. H is very opposed to meds and therapy or C either IC or MC, I think he remembers that awful time in his childhood and he doesn't want to do that to himself. But yet he'd rather destroy his marriage, disappoint his family, maybe lose his house and live in a bedroom? Just to not have responsibility. I hope he can come through this.
M:29/H:30 Met:2007 M 3/20/09 SEP 9/4/13 Back in house 10/5/13 H in Replay still DBing my heart out! Babies: Harley AKA Paw-Dobie 10yrs Timmy-Bunny 7yrs Dusty-Bunny 4yrs
