This next situation is something only a woman can answer. This past weekend while sleeping in bed with my wife she starts to masturbate. I stayed perfectly still because I couldn't believe it was happening right next to me. We haven't slept together for 2 years now so I wasn't going to stop her. My question is why? Why not just wait until I am not around or even better let me join in
Well, clearly she's feeling more comfortable around you if nothing else. I think I would have been inclined to "test the waters", but maybe that's just me, LOL!